Daniel Etim-Effiong Opens Up About Struggles in Marriage to Assertive Wife, Toyosi
Nollywood actor Daniel Etim-Effiong recently shared insights into his marriage to his wife, Toyosi, during a candid interview that has sparked mixed reactions online. The actor opened up about his early struggles with being married to an assertive woman, admitting that it was a challenging experience for him.
In the interview, Etim-Effiong revealed that he wasn’t accustomed to having people assert their opinions in his personal life. His wife, Toyosi, being assertive, made him feel like he was losing control of the marriage. This, he explained, made him question his role as a husband and man. He further acknowledged that during this period, he had issues with setting boundaries, especially with women around him. This lack of boundaries led to several arguments between the couple.
According to Etim-Effiong, “I’m not used to people having a say, sitting with the family to decide things…being with a wife that was so assertive was chaotic for me. I felt I was losing my grip on the marriage…I felt I wasn’t being a man, I felt I wasn’t being a husband, so it was just messing with my mind.” He also added that he struggled with women calling him at odd hours, something he later learned to set boundaries around after realizing the importance of such boundaries in a marriage.
The actor’s revelation has caused a stir online, with many netizens sharing their opinions. Some expressed understanding, while others criticized him for speaking so openly about his marital issues. One commenter pointed out that this transparency about marital struggles is rare in celebrity circles and appreciated the couple’s vulnerability. On the other hand, others questioned his approach to handling the relationship, with some speculating that Toyosi’s assertiveness was a reflection of deeper marital insecurities.
In a previous discussion on their seventh anniversary, Etim-Effiong asked Toyosi if she trusted him 100%. Her response was that while she trusted him to do his best, she did not trust him completely. She stated that even if he broke his vows, she would know, indicating a level of caution in their relationship.
Etim-Effiong’s admission of marital difficulties and the mixed reactions it has received underscore the complexities of relationships, even for high-profile figures. Despite the challenges, the couple’s openness serves as a reminder that no marriage is without its struggles, and communication and boundaries are essential to navigating these issues.
