Gospel Singer Dare Melody Recalls Family’s Frustration of Late Wife, Adedoyin

Nigerian gospel singer Dare Melody, born Damilare Odunuga, recently opened up about the challenges his late wife, Adedoyin, faced due to the treatment from his family. In an emotional reflection during her Christian wake on November 1, 2024, Dare shared how his wife endured hardship and frustration yet stood by him unwaveringly throughout their marriage.

Adedoyin passed away on October 24, 2024, at the age of 47, and during the wake, Dare recalled the emotional toll that his family’s behavior had on her. According to the gospel singer, his family made life difficult for Adedoyin, even as she supported him through some of the darkest moments of his career.

In a heartfelt moment, Dare described his efforts to comfort her during these difficult times. “My family frustrated Adedoyin; I’ll hold her and say, ‘Adedoyin, I’m the one you married, and whenever you see me, put your mind at rest,’” he shared. He recounted how, despite their financial struggles and limited resources, Adedoyin remained steadfast. At one point, the couple had little more than biscuits to eat while celebrating the New Year, with their one-year-old daughter in tow. During that challenging period, Dare felt the weight of his lack of recognition in the gospel music industry, particularly after being blacklisted by a promoter.

However, despite these obstacles, Adedoyin’s unwavering faith in him never wavered. Dare recounted a turning point when he was able to release a hit record, “Goodness and Mercy,” in 2010, which revitalized his career and brought him the recognition he had longed for. It was then that Dare made a promise to his wife. “Everything I have is for her,” he said, committing to building a house for Adedoyin with the proceeds from his success.

Dare’s brother also shared a poignant story from a family gathering that further illustrated the challenges Adedoyin faced. At their late mother’s 50th birthday celebration in Ibadan, Dare’s family mocked Adedoyin in front of guests, an incident that left her deeply hurt. Dare expressed his outrage, telling his wife, “If I were in your shoes, I would leave this family because what they did to you that day is enough to make anyone leave.”

Despite the mistreatment she faced, Adedoyin remained a pillar of strength for Dare, supporting him through it all. Her legacy of resilience and love has left a lasting impression on him, as he reflects on the sacrifices she made.

As the couple’s story unfolds in the wake of her passing, Dare Melody honors his late wife, expressing deep gratitude for her unwavering support and the love she brought into his life. Her memory continues to inspire, reminding him of the power of loyalty and faith, even in the face of adversity.