Nancy Isime Sparks Controversy with Her Take on ‘Women Supporting Women’

Nigerian actress Nancy Isime recently stirred mixed reactions on social media after sharing her opinion on the widely used term “women supporting women.” The Nollywood star took to her Instagram page on March 27, 2025, to express her thoughts on the phrase, criticizing it for being used blindly by many. Her post, which quickly went viral, has ignited a heated debate, with some supporters agreeing with her viewpoint, while others have accused her of wanting to get married, suggesting her comments stemmed from personal motives.
In her post, Isime urged her followers to reflect on the true meaning of feminism and gender equality, stressing that equality should involve treating people based on their capabilities and actions, not their gender. She noted that while many women claim to support each other, the term “women supporting women” is often used insincerely, with some even dismissing it as “fake” or non-existent. She further questioned the effectiveness of this support if those who preach it are not accountable for their own actions or contributions.
“Are these women supportable or employable?” Isime wrote. “The people who coined ‘women supporting women’ and ‘what do you bring to the table’ are in the same ‘dumb WhatsApp group.'”
Her strong statement immediately divided opinions. Some women, especially those who had always championed the notion of mutual support among women, felt betrayed by her comments and accused her of downplaying the importance of solidarity. Others, however, praised her for speaking out and pointed out that her words were a call for greater accountability among women.
Among the critics was one user who suggested that Nancy’s post was an attempt at rebranding herself for marriage. Another user dismissed her message as senseless, while others disagreed, asserting that Isime was simply trying to make an important point. Some Instagram users also came to her defense, stating that many were misinterpreting her words and that her message was intended to encourage deeper reflection on self-worth and contribution.
One commenter, Nehll_ee, asked, “Lol so what did she say that’s warranting all these insults?” Another, Chef.essy, added, “When you say something different from their level of understanding, they call you a pick me or desperate for marriage. Just read to understand.”
Despite the backlash, a segment of social media users expressed their admiration for Isime’s post. Officialsandra_basil called it “the most amazing piece” that made sense in Women’s Month, while Sapakitchen1 highlighted the importance of adding value to oneself and learning accountability, something everyone needs to learn.
Nancy Isime’s post comes shortly after another controversy where she sparked debates over photos of herself in a hijab for an armed robbery scene in a film, showing once again that her social media presence always attracts attention. Whether praised or criticized, Isime continues to use her platform to share her unfiltered opinions, creating space for conversation about pressing societal issues.