It has been a subtle rule for almost all of lifetime now that women who play hard to get seem to e treated better than those who open up and get attached so easily. Well, it still works.
Even though sometimes, some guys would try to make you feel that you chase them away when you play hard to get, know this; that one that really wants you will not relent or give up easily. Hence, let’s just say the others who left were not courageous enough to pay the price of persistence.
Here are extremely important tips and ways to play hard to get – tips that work everytime and keep that man always wanting to up his game.
You had a life before he met you. Even if you didn’t, act like you do. Men are just so attracted to busy women. It’s a reflex thing.
After reigning in your male suitor, you might be tempted to fall into the comfort zone of 24-hour texting and getting as far up each other’s butts as (metaphorically) possible.
But I’m going to challenge you to STOP.
Your time is precious, (at least he must be made to feel so), and it shouldn’t be wasted on some guy you’re not even going to remember in twenty years. Make him prove that he’s deserving of your time by subtlety letting him know that you don’t have a lot it to spare.
So let his calls go to voicemail and wait a day to text back. If that’s enough to scare him off, then good riddance.
Trust me, you’re worth the effort to get to know.
Where a lot of women get it wrong with the game of playing hard to get is the aspect of being polite. If the man on your neck seems a good man and appears to be someone you see yourself with in the future, then being rude is not a key to getting there.
While it is advisable to be straight, especially when you just met, it is advisable to not go all nasty and saucy. He would simply assume that it is a part of your character, and this is a real turn off for many men.
Even if he is not someone you are quite interested in, it is good to be polite from the start, because you never know – it’s a small world.