Strong women are good at handling just about everything life throws at them. Sometimes it’s a juggling act and the struggle is real, but they handle it because they pride themselves and define themselves by their strength and independence. One of the only things that really scares a strong woman is falling in love. This is because it requires her to go outside of her comfort zone in so many ways. It’s such an irony how really strong women are able to overcome really tough times in their career, but find it difficult to allow themselves enjoy the experience of falling in love, especially if they have been hurt before. Many just decide to focus on their career and forget about love.
These are some more reasons why strong women find it hard to fall in love:
A. Strong women have had their heart-broken before.
They might act like they’re unbreakable. They might act like nothing in the world has the power to affect them. But they have fallen in love before. They have gotten their heart-broken and they do know what real pain feels like. But these heart breaks just made them wiser, and not indifferent. They still have a lot of love to give to the world, but they just want to be sure about who truly deserves it.
B. They don’t need validation from others.
A strong woman doesn’t need validation from the people around her. She only needs validation from her own success, her own work, her own friendships and the way she lives her life. She knows that the right person will come along when the timing is right. And she never lets a relationship define her worth or her life.
C. They tend to ask all the tough questions.
They will ask a guy all the questions he always tries to evade. They will ask where this relationship stands and where the future will lead to. They will ask whether they can meet your friends and family to be more involved in your life. These women are curious and passionate about everything that life has to offer, and dating is no exception to this.